the choice is between what’s good and what’s best. For example, even though I decided to quit the dating scene, I don’t believe that dating in and of itself is sinful. Because there’s no biblical command not to date, this is an area that we each need to evaluate in light of our own maturity, our motive, and the other person involved. The decision requires wisdom. This is where it’s so important that our love for others be shaped by God’s love for us. This kind of love looks beyond personal desires